I might have forgiven the shitstorm that was Apple’s Tahoe macOS release. I never upgraded my laptop from Sequoia after seeing the accessibility disaster that was Liquid Glass. I was able to survive iOS 26 by enabling ‘Reduce Motion’ and ‘Increase Contrast’ in the system settings. I searched for something to change the offensive design so I could use my phone normally without distraction.
These modes emphatically help my brain, and I can’t really explain why. It’s like seeing the difference between a human interface design that feels off and one that feels right. But it shouldn’t have been necessary if Apple hadn’t lost their goddamn minds. Their software is starting to decay at every level.
After seeing more of the same from Golden Gate iOS / macOS 26, I’m not going to forgive and I am not upgrading my existing devices anymore. I’m staying on Sequoia. This isn’t something I would ever do under normal circumstances. My desktop is Debian Testing / Forky. My NAS and Raspberry Pi are Debian stable. I do not run outdated software for security reasons. It’s too easy to get stuck and fall behind. I have learned this after years of managing fleets of virtual machines in the clouds. Do not get behind, unless you want to raise your risk of having unpatched security vulnerabilities.
This summer I left iOS for GrapheneOS. It wasn’t just the fact that iOS hasn’t changed much in a decade. It was that I was tired of being locked into Apple’s walled garden. I built a personal todo app, just like many software engineers do. It accommodates my own personal behaviors better than others and is based on the Eisenhower framework. Do you know how fucking annoying it was to be forced to use Xcode? What a heaping pile of shit that software is. I haven’t wanted to leave software by an honorable seppuku that badly since nearly thirty years ago when I was given a computer with Windows ME. Yes. Xcode is worse than Windows ME. Don’t even get me started.
I wrote the personal todo application in Flutter so that I could deploy the app to Linux, macOS, Android and iOS. I spent most of the time developing the software outside of Xcode in Gram and Goland, and even still that was too much Xcode. What kind of tech company neglects its IDE to the point that it rots from within?
On top of that Apple also wanted to charge me a $100 annual fee just so I could deploy my own software to my own phone. The actual fuck? No. I left for alternatives that respect my user choices and technical abilities where they are. I’m not renting a device I already own from the greedy duopolist.
It’s a shame because Apple continues to produce world class hardware; however, bugs, poor product leadership, questionable design, and vendor lock-in at the extreme are actively hampering the software and harming their users. I am out.




















